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Dear Xenina, My whole life has been within a small community, small school and very much church driven as far as the events/ hobbies and attended places were concerned. My life has always been highly protected. Last April, I was shopping at the local shopping center with friends as we often did for something to do on the weekends. One this day, we parted at the same intersection we always did to head in the directions of our own homes, one street away from my home was grabbed by this guy, the details of such I don't really want to go into. I never said anything to anyone for two weeks when my mum was talking to me and I broke down about it. As you can imagine my mum was very concerned and tried to be very comforting, can't really say anything bad about that but I know that she was hurt that I never came to her when it happened. The whole thing had to be reported that was horrible, having to say every single detail. Since then, I had to see a councilor, I never really ...

Dear Xenina, To cut a long story short I am torn between two woman. The first woman I am dating and is very attractive but we arent very emotionally involved (I think thats how she likes it). The other I am just very good friends with but we have a great bond. We have both admitted that we like each other as more than friends but neither of us have done anything since shes just come out of a relationship she was deeply involved in . . and I have a girlfriend at the moment. However, she is also a lot further away from me than my girlfriend is. So my question is which should I choose? Should I stick with my current GF who is close or try a long distance with a girl i have a lot of feelings for and she returns them? Torn (18 yrs old) Alright Torn, I'm going to tell you something I hardly ever advise. Do what's convenient at the moment. Are you going off to college or the army? If you have plans to be on the move and/or do something with your life at the moment, you need not w...

Thanks for viewing, I don't know many girls and my social life doesn't really cross paths with many girls besides the ones I know. Been seeing the one with me now, and my situation left me knowing that just got to hold onto the best thing for you before it's not there no more. That's why when things don't all go well I still try because when it come's to good girls she definitely one hell of a good girl. Note that she broke up with her ex of 4 years so I'm very laid back and just cruising just to give her space. Many people would tell me to just move on and wait for someone else, but realistically when I say my social life doesn't cross pathes with many girls I mean it, also there's a great girl in front of me I just want to keep trying til she tells me she has no interest. People tell me I'm so naive but sometimes people over complicate situations, if you keep it real and simple it probably go your way. Opinions please? Opinion Seeker Dear Opini...