Thanks for viewing, I don't know many girls and my social life doesn't really cross paths with many girls besides the ones I know. Been seeing the one with me now, and my situation left me knowing that just got to hold onto the best thing for you before it's not there no more. That's why when things don't all go well I still try because when it come's to good girls she definitely one hell of a good girl.
Note that she broke up with her ex of 4 years so I'm very laid back and just cruising just to give her space. Many people would tell me to just move on and wait for someone else, but realistically when I say my social life doesn't cross pathes with many girls I mean it, also there's a great girl in front of me I just want to keep trying til she tells me she has no interest. People tell me I'm so naive but sometimes people over complicate situations, if you keep it real and simple it probably go your way. Opinions please?
Opinion Seeker
Dear Opinion Seeker,
She's good. She's great, but that tells me absolutely nothing. Do you have a lot in common? How difficult was her previous relationship? Was she deeply in love with that guy? If so, you'll just be a rebound and you don't want to waste a series of months on a disaster like that.
Does she show interest in you? If she were a light bulb and you were a moth, would you hover around her so much that it would kill you? Are you already in love with her? (Yes. I know men fall in love quickly sometimes. It happens.) If you are already in love with her and she doesn't even know you, you might think about moving on. If you worship her, she will notice and it will actually dissuade her from dating you. No woman wants to be worshiped right off the bat. If they do it might work for a month or so, but then that relationship will dissolve.
Feel free to fill me in with more information.
Signed,
Xenina
Note that she broke up with her ex of 4 years so I'm very laid back and just cruising just to give her space. Many people would tell me to just move on and wait for someone else, but realistically when I say my social life doesn't cross pathes with many girls I mean it, also there's a great girl in front of me I just want to keep trying til she tells me she has no interest. People tell me I'm so naive but sometimes people over complicate situations, if you keep it real and simple it probably go your way. Opinions please?
Opinion Seeker
Dear Opinion Seeker,
She's good. She's great, but that tells me absolutely nothing. Do you have a lot in common? How difficult was her previous relationship? Was she deeply in love with that guy? If so, you'll just be a rebound and you don't want to waste a series of months on a disaster like that.
Does she show interest in you? If she were a light bulb and you were a moth, would you hover around her so much that it would kill you? Are you already in love with her? (Yes. I know men fall in love quickly sometimes. It happens.) If you are already in love with her and she doesn't even know you, you might think about moving on. If you worship her, she will notice and it will actually dissuade her from dating you. No woman wants to be worshiped right off the bat. If they do it might work for a month or so, but then that relationship will dissolve.
Feel free to fill me in with more information.
Signed,
Xenina
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