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Abusive Nightmares

Dear Xenina, My whole life has been within a small community, small school and very much church driven as far as the events/ hobbies and attended places were concerned. My life has always been highly protected. Last April, I was shopping at the local shopping center with friends as we often did for something to do on the weekends. One this day, we parted at the same intersection we always did to head in the directions of our own homes, one street away from my home was grabbed by this guy, the details of such I don't really want to go into. I never said anything to anyone for two weeks when my mum was talking to me and I broke down about it. As you can imagine my mum was very concerned and tried to be very comforting, can't really say anything bad about that but I know that she was hurt that I never came to her when it happened. The whole thing had to be reported that was horrible, having to say every single detail. Since then, I had to see a councilor, I never really ...

Torn

Dear Xenina, To cut a long story short I am torn between two woman. The first woman I am dating and is very attractive but we arent very emotionally involved (I think thats how she likes it). The other I am just very good friends with but we have a great bond. We have both admitted that we like each other as more than friends but neither of us have done anything since shes just come out of a relationship she was deeply involved in . . and I have a girlfriend at the moment. However, she is also a lot further away from me than my girlfriend is. So my question is which should I choose? Should I stick with my current GF who is close or try a long distance with a girl i have a lot of feelings for and she returns them? Torn (18 yrs old) Alright Torn, I'm going to tell you something I hardly ever advise. Do what's convenient at the moment. Are you going off to college or the army? If you have plans to be on the move and/or do something with your life at the moment, you need not w...